Young Parents
Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience, no matter how old you are. But if you’re a young person, it can be even more daunting. You may feel like you’re not ready for the responsibility or that you don’t have the financial resources to support a child.
But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. Many young people become parents, and there are resources available to help you.
This page will discuss some of the thoughts you may be having as well as some places you can seek advice and support.
Young Parents
Becoming a parent is a life-changing experience, no matter how old you are. But if you’re a young person, it can be even more daunting. You may feel like you’re not ready for the responsibility or that you don’t have the financial resources to support a child.
But it’s important to remember that you’re not alone. Many young people become parents, and there are resources available to help you.
This page will discuss some of the thoughts you may be having as well as some places you can seek advice and support.
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5 tips for new parents
- Talk to your health visitor about free baby groups. Baby groups are a great way to meet other parents, learn about parenting, and get support
- Try not to put pressure on yourself to know everything right away. Everyone learns at their own pace, and there’s no need to be an expert overnight
- Ask for help when you need it. Don’t be afraid to ask your family, friends, or a professional for help. There are many people who care about you and want to help you succeed as a parent
- Take time to rest when your baby is resting. It’s important to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally. Make sure you’re getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly
- Talk about how you’re feeling with our counsellors. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stressed, talking to a counsellor can help you cope with your emotions and develop coping mechanisms
Starting back at school
Going back to school after having a baby can be a daunting task, but it’s definitely possible! Here are some tips to help you get started:
- Talk to your teachers and support workers. They can help you create a plan that works for you and your baby
- Make a list of your questions and concerns. This will help you remember everything you want to talk about and it’ll show your teachers and support workers that you’re serious about your education.
- Find out about childcare and financial support. There are many resources available to help you, so don’t be afraid to ask for help
- Set realistic goals. Don’t try to do too much at once. Start by setting small goals and gradually increase your workload as you get more comfortable
- Take breaks when your baby is sleeping, or ask someone else to watch your baby so you can have some time to yourself. It’s important to take time for yourself, even when you’re busy
- Be honest with your teachers and support workers. If you’re struggling, don’t be afraid to ask for help. They’re there to support you and they want to help you to succeed
- Young parents under the age of 20 can receive free funding to stay in education. For more details and information about how to apply for funding visit: C2L guide for 2023-2024Â
Remember, you’re not alone. Many young parents go back to school and there are resources available to help you. With a little planning and effort, you can do it!
You’re not alone.
There are people who care about you and want to help you through this decision.
FAQs
Clear answers to common questions
Contacting a sexual health service for the first time may be a little daunting, especially if you’re not keen on talking to someone. So, here are answers to some of the questions we get asked a lot.
What questions will be asked if I call the helpline?
You’ll be asked a few simple questions to understand your circumstances and the support you may need.
There is no rush, so take your time.
What support will I be offered?
We will support you in whatever way you need.
This may include talking through your situation, giving advice, helping you access things like protection or contraception, or organising a STI test.
What if I need a test?
We provide a quick and discreet STI self-testing kits for many of the most common infections.
If a different test is needed, we’ll help you with booking a confidential appointment at a local clinic.
Will I need a physical examination?
You may be invited to a confidential physical examination at one of our clinics, where a doctor will undertake any examination that’s needed.
You’ll be asked in advance if you are comfortable with the examination.
Who is told about my appointments or STI tests?
No one. Both your appointment and test result are completely confidential.
Your information is stored in a sexual health services medical record and is only shared with your GP or other professional if you agree.
How are tests taken?
If you do need to take a test, many can be taken from the comfort of your home by ordering one of our self-test kits – others may require a visit to a sexual health clinic.
You may be asked to provide either a urine or swab sample of the infected area or a blood sample may be needed in some cases. This will be explained before the test.
What if my test result is positive?
Firstly, please don’t worry, we deal with STIs all the time and almost all are now treatable.
You’ll be contacted by a professional to discuss your results and given advice on the treatment you may need.
In addition, we will offer any counselling and other forms of support you may need.