Sexual Assault
Sexual assault is when someone forces or pressures you into any sexual activity that you don’t want to do. This can include rape, attempted rape, groping, sexual harassment and threats.
It’s important to remember that you are never to blame for sexual assault. No matter who the attacker is, what you were wearing or what you did or didn’t do, you are not to blame.
Sexual Assault
Sexual assault is when someone forces or pressures you into any sexual activity that you don’t want to do. This can include rape, attempted rape, groping, sexual harassment and threats.
It’s important to remember that you are never to blame for sexual assault. No matter who the attacker is, what you were wearing or what you did or didn’t do, you are not to blame.
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Sexual Assault
Anyone can be a victim of sexual assault. It doesn’t matter what your gender is or how old you are. But it’s always important to remember that you’re never the one to blame.
Usually, sexual assaults are done by someone the victim knows. Even in a relationship, it’s never okay to force someone to do something sexual that they don’t want to do.
If you think you have been sexually assaulted, there are people who can help. You can visit the National Sexual Assault Hotline website at rainn.org. You can also talk to a trusted adult, such as a parent, teacher or counsellor.
Consent
Consent is the active and enthusiastic agreement to engage in sexual activity. It’s important to remember that consent can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason.
Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean that you’ve automatically consented to sex. Your partner doesn’t have the right to force you to have sex, even if you’ve had sex with them before.
If you’re unsure that your partner has given their consent, it’s always best to ask and if your partner doesn’t seem enthusiastic or doesn’t appear to be enjoying themselves, it’s best to stop.
You’re not alone.
There are people who care about you and want to help you through this decision.
FAQs
Clear answers to common questions
Contacting a sexual health service for the first time may be a little daunting, especially if you’re not keen on talking to someone. So, here are answers to some of the questions we get asked a lot.
What questions will be asked if I call the helpline?
You’ll be asked a few simple questions to understand your circumstances and the support you may need.
There is no rush, so take your time.
What support will I be offered?
We will support you in whatever way you need.
This may include talking through your situation, giving advice, helping you access things like protection or contraception, or organising a STI test.
What if I need a test?
We provide a quick and discreet STI self-testing kits for many of the most common infections.
If a different test is needed, we’ll help you with booking a confidential appointment at a local clinic.
Will I need a physical examination?
You may be invited to a confidential physical examination at one of our clinics, where a doctor will undertake any examination that’s needed.
You’ll be asked in advance if you are comfortable with the examination.
Who is told about my appointments or STI tests?
No one. Both your appointment and test result are completely confidential.
Your information is stored in a sexual health services medical record and is only shared with your GP or other professional if you agree.
How are tests taken?
If you do need to take a test, many can be taken from the comfort of your home by ordering one of our self-test kits – others may require a visit to a sexual health clinic.
You may be asked to provide either a urine or swab sample of the infected area or a blood sample may be needed in some cases. This will be explained before the test.
What if my test result is positive?
Firstly, please don’t worry, we deal with STIs all the time and almost all are now treatable.
You’ll be contacted by a professional to discuss your results and given advice on the treatment you may need.
In addition, we will offer any counselling and other forms of support you may need.
